If a man were to pick up a telephone receiver rattle off his message with hardly a pause for breath and then hang up without giving the other party time to respond , we would think him rude or strange. But too frequently that is the way men pray. We have become accustomed to the idea that prayers should be flowing and smooth. We are too embarrassed to pause, ponder, think or listen. But that is all wrong. Listening is an essential part of praying. Answers from the Lord come quietly ever so quietly . In fact few hear his answers audibly with their ears. We must be listening so carefully or we will never recognize them. Most answers from the Lord are felt in our heart as a warm, comfortable expression or they may come as thoughts to our mind. They come to those who are prepared and who are patient. On a regular basis where and when you can be alone, take time to improve your communication and relationship with God. Seek out what Jesus would have you to do in order that you may more effectively communicate with God. Control your mind to think about the things you are pleading about. Jesus taught that personal prayers should be private. Read Matthew 6:5-6. Prayers tend to be more honest when they are said in secret, when there is no one around to impress. Personal prayer is your anchor as a Christian. Find an area where you can be alone, where you can think, where you can speak outloud to God, and where you can kneel. Remember whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted. Read Matthew 23:12.